wtf

Okay so I’ve notice my pet peeves around a lot lately. Things doing things that just get on my nerves..and I’m not one to get pissed of easily.

1. I hate it when somebody gets mad at me just cuz I am mad at them. That doesn’t solve the problem..just makes it worse..  Especially if you have no reason for you to be mad besides me being upset. And PLUS especially if I explained to you what it is that you did.

2. If we make plans, either say yes or no from the start. I hate flakes.

3. An the most annoying one of all. When someone disrespects me and my time & only think about their own comforts… repetively. Even when I call them on yet. And when they finally admit they were at wrong..they start again…
Like this week for example, I asked if you wanted to hang out a week ago. You said yes. I planned the day specifically on a friday cuz I know it’s when you are free..and I really tried to make it a reunion between the three of us, and you knew how much it ment to me.  Then a couple of days later.. you said only during the night because you wanted to finish your essay during the day. And so then a few days after that, when I told you the plans… you complained about it being too late because you wanted to sleep in early since you had to wake up early the next day. I finally thought of something that would work for the three of us..something that wasn’t much effort for you to do at all. And then I realised it wouldn’t work this time because our other friend wouldn’t be able to get home from there….I cancelled and went back to something that will work..  but will just be a greater distance for you. To which you said for us to go without you that you didn’t feel like going there. So I called up our friend and told her it was just the two of us..to which we had to make completely new plans…. finaly it all works out.. when again you ask when we are meeting and where . Even if I already told you. To this I got confused because you said you weren’t going, and your reply was that you can’t make up your mind… that maybe going out would be good for you. By then..I was really annoyed. I could not sit there 30 mins before we are supposed to hang out waiting for you to make up your mind so that I could make my plans. Still trying to be patient but with a warning.. I told you that it is up to you if YOU want. that we could still go to the hookah bar even if i already changed my plans when you said you didnt want to go anymore. but make up your mind quick because i dont like to be blown off and back on. So if it was wrong to not reply to when you said “fine then i wont go then”  im sorry..but if YOU are the one angry now..  please stop thinking only about yourself.
Just like I said 6 months ago..I will not wait on you hand & foot.  Nothing has changed.
I hope you realised after..that playing your cards like that won’t get you anywhere. What will you except..for me to say “no no! PLEASE just come!” yeah right. And in the end..we were the ones out while you sulked some more.